Emotional Affects of Breast Cancer: Body Image
Many breast cancer survivors experience physical changes in their bodies as a result of cancer or its treatment. The way we feel and think about our bodies may also change. Understanding how cancer can affect your body image can help you feel confident as you experience and manage changes in your body.
Each survivor may react to physical changes in a different way. It may be very difficult for you to accept the changes to your body. All ways of reacting are normal and okay. Grieving is one aspect of physical changes. It’s also possible that your body didn’t change as a result of cancer, but you still feel differently about the way you are seen by others.
Your body image is what you believe about your own appearance, even though other people might see you differently. A poor body image may result in you feeling ashamed, self-conscious and anxious about your body. If you have experienced changes to your body as a result of cancer or treatment, you might feel less confident about your physical appearance. However, it is important to remember that your body is only one part of who you are as a whole person. If you focus only on what your body looks like, you will overlook the strength of your personality, your interest in life and the talents you bring to many areas of your life.
Physical changes can be difficult to accept, and they may be a temporary or permanent part of who you are. Being a breast cancer survivor may also seem like a big change in how you see yourself. Finding your personal way of dealing with these changes may improve your quality of life and help you feel more confident during your survivorship.
Examples of temporary changes that can affect your body image:
Examples of permanent changes that can affect your body image:
Both permanent and temporary physical changes may or may not be visible to other people. When physical changes aren’t visible to others, you may not notice any changes in how you feel about your body. However, even changes that no one else can see can affect you because body image relates to how you feel about your body, not how it actually looks to others.
Many people think that the only survivors who are at risk for having a poor body image are survivors who experience temporary or permanent physical changes to their bodies. This is not true. Even if you do not experience any physical changes from cancer, you might still feel that others see you differently. You may think that others don’t understand you or can’t relate to you now. Feelings of insecurity and uncertainty may affect your body image, even if your body looks exactly like it did before cancer.
Cancer and its treatment affect each survivor differently, and physical changes caused by cancer are unique to each survivor. Sometimes physical changes caused by cancer prevent you from working or doing the things you used to enjoy before cancer. This can be very difficult to accept. Even small changes in your body may seem overwhelming.
Your physical changes may also affect how others react to you, which can affect your body image. Not everyone knows how to react to people who have had cancer or who have physical changes from cancer or its treatment. Some people will react negatively, and that can cause hurt feelings and discomfort. Having a strong, positive body image may help you worry less about how other people react to your physical appearance.
After treatment ends, many cancer survivors want their lives to return to the way they were before cancer. If you have a permanent physical change, it can seem like a constant reminder that life is different. Also, if you see yourself differently after cancer, you may worry that your life will never be normal again. All these things can affect how well you feel about yourself and your body. You might want to consider giving yourself time to adjust to changes in your body or changes in how you feel about yourself. In time, your body image may improve as you start to adjust to life after cancer.
If your body image didn’t change right after you finished treatment, it’s still possible for an aftereffect of treatment or a change in how you feel about your life after cancer to affect your body image. If you had problems with your body image before cancer, you may see your problems become worse over time if you don’t address them. On the other hand, you may also see an improvement in your body image. You may think that cancer changed how you feel about certain things in your life. You may think that what others think of you isn’t as important anymore.
Anytime you experience a major change in how you look or how you feel you look, you might be at risk for having a poor body image. Doing your best to recognize your strengths beyond your physical appearance may help decrease your risk for having a poor body image.
All survivors deal with changes in body image in their own way. It is a personal experience. However, there are some general approaches that may help you improve your body image and begin to better understand your body after cancer.